If you were brought up in the 60s and 70s, chances are you were trained to be a strong, independent woman. It’s likely you were taught that you didn’t need a man in your life. You thought that anything a man could do, you could probably do even better. Show
You proudly took on this masculine energy doing everything you needed to do to get ahead in your career. Yet when it came to love and men, chances are you found yourself struggling. Men might have told you that you were controlling or demanding. It might have seemed that all men wanted were younger women who fluttered their eyelashes and got their needs met quickly and easily. Something men might not have done for you. This left you at home angry and alone on yet another Saturday night. Does this sound familiar at all? It’s time to set the record straight. Here’s the deal. Most men do want to be in a relationship with women closer to their age. This is because they share a common history with each other. Most men do try out younger women because they feel appreciated by them, something they don’t always feel from women their own age. You see, men want to be your hero. It’s literally in their DNA coding to keep you safe, protected and provided for. They want to make you happy and will do anything within their power to make that happen for you. READ ALSO: 7 Best Perfumes For Older Women The problem is when you need something from a man; chances are you’re using words and phrases he can’t hear. As women, our DNA coding is one of community. So when you ask a man to help you with something, you probably use words like, “Honey, can you help me move this table?” If a woman heard this phrase, she’d say, “Of course!” This is because she thinks it’s important to lend a helping hand. She will do anything that helps the community be a better place. A man hears this phrase and thinks you are telling him what to do just like his mom did when he was young. Not sure how to find the man? Read our article ‘The Top 5 Best Dating Sites for Seniors’. Making a man your hero is the secret to getting his cooperation easily. These two phrases will bring out the hero response in a man. They work very well when you need him to do something for you. Phrase #1 is “I need your help…” then ask for what you need. Phrase #2 is “Could you do me a favor…” then ask for what you need. When I’ve used these phrases, I’ve had men tell me they love helping a woman who needs their help. Try this. It will make a huge difference with the men in your life. READ ALSO: What Do Older Men Want When It Comes To Senior Dating? You Might Be Surprised! Here’s one last thing you need to know. Men feel underappreciated so thanking them and telling them how much you appreciate what they did for you goes a long way in getting the cooperation of all the men in your life. Are you back in the dating game and finding it difficult to navigate as a woman over 60? Even prepared with the best advice about men and how to communicate with them, it may seem like a challenging thing to do. Finding love after 60 is possible! Read our article packed with advice from the Sixty & Me community members about dating and finding love later in life. Have you used either of the suggested phrases when trying to get the attention of an older man? Are there any other tips you can share that might be valuable to a woman who is having problems communicating with a man? IMAGES PROVIDED BY: 1) Plougmann/Getty 2) Eric Raptosh/Getty 3) AJ Watt/Getty 4) Goodluz/Thinkstock 5) Uwe Umstatter/Getty 6) Hemant Mehta/Getty 7) Thinkstock 8) Westend61/Getty 9) Joey Boylan/Getty SOURCES: Attire Club: “Tips to Look Younger for Older Men.” Franchomme, fashion management consultant, Attire Club, Vienna, Austria. Marc Glashofer, MD, The Dermatology Group, West Orange, NJ. American Academy of Dermatology: “Wrinkle Remedies,” “Cosmetic Surgery,” “What Causes Aging Skin.” Mouth Healthy: “Whitening: 5 Things to Know About Getting a Brighter Smile,” “Veneers.” Tamara Connor, wardrobe consultant, Atlanta. Some handsome men are like wine - they get better with age. Bored Panda collected a list of handsome guys and hot older men over or just under 50 years old that might redefine the concept of good looking. From sporty silver heads to true fashion icons, the list will cater to many tastes. Some of these "grandpa" male models actually started their modeling careers after they hit 45 or more. For example, Philippe Dumas was 60 years old and aging gracefully when his decision to grow a beard helped him get a modeling contract. Quite a career opportunity to look forward to, don't you think? That is if you turn out to be a handsome old man with age. Most of the hot older male models featured here have Instagram accounts which you can follow by clicking on the source below each stunning picture. You'll thank me later. Also, don't forget to vote and comment on your favorite silver foxes! This post may include affiliate links. #1 Anthony Varrecchia, 53 Years Old
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53 is NOT an "older man" unless you're 25. 2828points replyView More Replies...View more comments#2 Eric Rutherford
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I'm not even straight, but this silver fox is handsome! 6262points replyView More Replies...View more comments#3 T. R. Pescod
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Mephistopheles! Woohoo! 1919points replyView More Replies...View more comments#4 Mark Reay, 57 Years Old
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Incredible life of a fighter https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Reay 1717points replyView more comments#5 Philippe Dumas, 60 Years Old
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60 is not elderly! 3434points replyView More Replies...View more comments#6 Aiden Brady, 50 Years Old
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If you call a 50 y. o. elderly, what do you call an 80 y. o.? 7171points replyView More Replies...View more comments#7 Wang Deshun, 80 Years Old
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lol that quit turn around tho 5757points replyView More Replies...View more comments#8 Ron Jack Foley
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The second pic with his hair like whoa 5757points replyView More Replies...View more comments#9 Garrett Swann, 47 Years Old
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I had never thought of 47 as being "an old man" 169169points replyView More Replies...View more comments#10 Alessandro Manfredini, 48 Years Old
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This guy looks a lot older than 48 187187points replyView More Replies...View more comments#11 Brad W.
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oooh yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now THIS is THE one!!!! :D Be still my heart!!! <3 1818points replyView more comments#12 Günther Krabbenhöft, 70 Years Old
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Awh he's sweet :) 77points replyView More Replies...View more comments#13 Anton Nilsson, 53 Years Old
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If Ellen DeGeneres were a man.... 6060points replyView More Replies...View more comments#14 Guillermo Zapata
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Nice smile - noticing a trend, these guys aren't giving their ages... 3030points replyView More Replies...View more comments#15 Bobby Dekeyser, 52 Years Old
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Ooh yes, very nice. Heterosexual? Single? 11point replyView more comments#16 Seth Andrew Silver
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They think you're elderly, Seth. 2828points replyView More Replies...View more comments#17 Irvin Randle, 54 Years Old
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All day, any day..... 2323points replyView More Replies...View more comments#18 Will Willitts
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Dude - you are made for black & white photography - just timeless! 3636points replyView More Replies...View more comments#19 Andreas Von Tempelhoff
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Oh my lord: I have palpitations. 2222points replyView more comments#20 Andre Van Noord, 51 Years Old
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Reminds me a bit of Iain Glen who plays Jorah Mormont on Game of Thrones, who has also aged very well! https://metrouk2.files.wordpress.com/2016/07/ser-jorah.jpg?w=748&h=498&crop=1 22points replyView more commentsSee Also on Bored Panda Woman Shows How "Harry Potter" Characters Were Supposed To Look According To Book Descriptions (35 Pics) 50 ‘Weird Facts’ About The World That Might Give You A Fresh Perspective #21 Jack Guy
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Richard Gere/Kevin Costner Kind of man. 1313points replyView More Replies...View more comments#22 Ben Desombre
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Hummmm!!!! 88points replyView more comments#23 Mister Alborghetti
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La moustache parfaite! 👌 1919points replyView more comments#24 Jeremy Lea
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remind me on Richard Gere 2020points replyView More Replies...View more comments#25 Gianluca Vacchi, 49 Years Old
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This is the guy that went viral recently, dancing on his yacht with his hot model wife. Dude has moves! He's some rich fancy Italian businessman. 1818points replyView more comments#26 Paul Mason, 52 Years Old
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looks like a supervilain :-) 3232points replyView More Replies...View more comments#28 Shan Michael Hefley, 54 Years Old
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Where on earth did you find these guys??? 77points replyView more comments#29 Jason Jules
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Handsome professor look! 99points replyView more comments#30 Angelo Gallamini, 52 Years Old
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Well-worn for 52. Again with the grandpa beard. I bet there's a great face to go with those eyes, hiding under there. What is a 60 year old man like?Most men in their 60s know what they want. They have rich love and life experience that has made them wiser, more thoughtful, and realistic. So, a 60-year-old man will most likely want your friendship, companionship, and attention. Most 60-year-old men look for someone who shares their interests and values.
What does a 60 year old man want in a woman?Single men in their 60s are looking for a woman who is feminine and is willing to help them feel like a man. Many women, including myself, spent most of their lives competing with men – at work, in social situations, and even at home. Now, as we reach our 60s, it's difficult to put our swords down and just relax a bit.
Can 60 year old man want in bed?We don't just stop having sex when we reach a certain age, and sex in later life is no longer considered a taboo subject. Everyone is different; not every man over 50 or 60 will share the same likes or dislikes in the bedroom.
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