What is a womans greatest asset?

is a man’s imagination.” Have you heard that expression? If you grew up a few decades ago, you probably have. Lately, though, we don’t think that way—and our sex lives have lost something as a result.

If you think about what’s sexy, it often isn’t nudity. Not that nudity is unsexy; it’s just that little glimpses of skin can be more so. There’s a reason we like tops with peek-a-boo cutouts in back, maxi dresses with slits up the side, sheer layers that only partly reveal. There’s a reason strippers start off wearing clothes; a reason the covers of romance novels show buff guys in open shirts; a reason the lingerie industry even exists.

While there’s value in directness, there’s also fun in being a little coy. A hint of skin is enticing; it builds curiosity and anticipation. If we move too quickly to showing it all, we lose the thrill of the unveiling, the fun of undoing the buttons, the thinking frisky thoughts about what comes next. Our lovemaking actually becomes more mundane, less erotic.

So maybe slow things down a bit. Bask in the journey, the exploring, the slow process of getting things heated up. Maybe take your time before you sleep with that new partner, to just enjoy making out for a while. (Trust me, it’ll make things even more exciting when you eventually do the deed. And the making out is fun all by itself.) If you’re with a long-term partner, add some imagination and anticipation into your sex life. Maybe one of you can plan a sexy evening for the two of you, giving only tiny hints about what’s on the agenda. Or you can experiment with what kinds of clothes—and what kinds of undressing—turn you both on. Or whatever slows things down and gets you both looking forward to playtime. Your love life will be more erotic when you keep some mystery in the mix.

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One federal contractor says the most important things a woman should have is organization and a sense of self.

On this week’s episode of Women of Washington, Gigi Schumm welcomed Mischel Kwon, founder and CEO of MKACyber. Kwon, the former US-CERT (Computer Emergency Readiness Team) director, created her company as a consulting firm to help “improve security...

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One federal contractor says the most important things a woman should have is organization and a sense of self.

On this week’s episode of Women of Washington, Gigi Schumm welcomed Mischel Kwon, founder and CEO of MKACyber. Kwon, the former US-CERT (Computer Emergency Readiness Team) director, created her company as a consulting firm to help “improve security operations for enterprises and U.S. federal government agencies.”

Embrace a methodology

Among its responsibilities, MKACyber focuses on security operations centers. Kwon and her team provide a product that helps people, both companies and federal agencies, monitor their networks for, in layman’s terms, the bad things that could happen. Then it’s all about organizing and mapping content to help analysts do their job as best as possible, she said.

“Whether a company is mature or not, embracing a more organized and methodical methodology is really where it is today,” Kwon said. “As clients are looking to move more and more towards automation … you can’t move there until you’re organized. You can’t move there until you know what your data is and your data is organized. This is a really good marriage … This is really the new cutting edge. [It’s] all about getting organized.”

Are we more secure today than we were yesterday, last week or last year? Kwon said every analyst at different levels should be able to answer those questions.

“Gone are the days when we go to the board and try to scare them to death with some awful hacks story. They don’t want to hear that anymore,” the nearly 35-year IT veteran said. “So we need to be able to have the statistics and the metrics that show we are finding things this year, and next year, the numbers [of attacks, etc.] are going down.”

Securing funding for a new business is always difficult, but Kwon said she was not sure if her struggle was because she was a woman, or because she lacked experience. Paired with the fact that the company focused on both consulting and product development, it made finding investors harder.

And though she received plenty of advice about picking and choosing where to focus, the company wouldn’t have been the same if it were forced to split the two enterprises. The biggest learning curve came from building the process and focusing on structure, she said.

“I think I have done just about everything in IT from mainframes to coding to networking … I came to a point in my career where I hit a glass ceiling,” she said. “I didn’t have my degrees and, you know, there was a time where you could go pretty far, especially in IT, without a degree.”

Kwon said she reached a point where she realized she would never progress beyond a development manager role unless she “did something.” So she went back to school and saw the difference it made for her career. Interested in STEM from a young age, she said the coursework came naturally to her and within a few years she received her bachelor’s, master’s and certification.

“It was hard,” she said. “It was a very fast-paced time.”

The value of ‘me time’

Through it all, she was also a wife and mother of four children. But she said making sure she had a sense of self at all times was the most important asset in her life. She knew that sometimes, she just needed a little “me time,” to keep her head on straight.

“I am going to be the first to tell you that I actually don’t believe in work-life balance. I believe in ‘life just happens’ and you do the best you can,” Kwon said. “We just have to realize that life is going to be hard, and there are going to hard be things … and we also have to have people we can turn to that will help us through.”

Opening her business helped her go from the back room to the front office — wearing a suit and calling the shots. The glass ceiling was, in her words, busted.

Kwon counts Jane Goodall and Susan B. Anthony among the women who inspire her, and said it helps young women eyeing STEM fields or federal careers to see just how strong women have been from the beginning. Risking everything is not always a bad thing, she advised.

“I just believe in leaning forward. I really think that if you really want to move somewhere in life and you want to get to a better place, it’s your actions that are going to get you there,” she said. “I see it less as a risk and more as a necessary step.”

“A woman's greatest asset is her beauty.” ✨ Beauty is a combination of qualities, such as shape, colour, or form, that...

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“In reality, a woman’s greatest asset in the new society is her body which includes her ass, boobs, and beauty”. How true is this,

Does this mean that women should only spend their time, and resources on a mere depreciating object as a body, a piece of meat that ages and loses value as time goes by?

In a society where preferential treatment is given to beautiful, women, with banging bodies, well-sculptured faces, and women have been programmed from childhood to think that their beauty should look some certain way. What many women only have to hold on to is their Body, so they can use it to earn and create opportunities for themselves as much as they can

Most men will definitely tell you that a woman’s greatest asset is her body still, this is because men are mostly attracted by what they see and see beauty in only the physical.

Any wonder why a dumb saucy girl with no educational qualification or intellect but a banging body still gets men’s attention than a well-mannered decent educated girl. Have you ever wondered why good-looking girls are winning don’t allow anyone to tell you any different, although not all men like them big, cushion-like boobs or ass, hefty at the same time packaging matters?

In the same society where women are also trying to have a voice, a career, a job, a business, and live a more meaningful and fulfilling life there is more to a woman than just her body, looks, or just merely being a female.

In this article, I shared a list of great features that can make a woman great, well respected, and also be seen as a valuable asset in the society

1. Invest in your looks. This is your greatest asset as a woman keep it lovely.

Your looks are your no 1 asset, a popular phrase goes your “face your identity”, gloss your lips get a face routine, never be caught unfresh, just as we encourage both men and women to always look good and clean so also as a woman try to always look your best. It is said that you can only be addressed the way you are dressed.  

No matter what a woman’s qualification, the education we cannot take away appearance from her but at the same you should not feel insecure about your body or allow any insecurity to hold you down or stop you from being your best self. Invest in your looks.

There is something about looking and feeling good, it boost your confidence, makes you feel better about yourself and you can relate with people, raise your head high and contribute to activities and programs that can be beneficial to society.

See no matter what happens beauty will always be a thing with women. It has been there from generation to generations

2. Package and Put Yourself In Order

Have you ever seen skinny girls wearing revealing dresses? Even if you are not physically endowed, you still need to look the part, flaunt the skin, flaunt the legs. After all, we have all established that one of the greatest Assets a woman has in this new society is her looks and beauty.

What do you do if you don’t have great looks, Package yourself, that is make do with the little you have in a great way. There is something I have noticed it is the ones who don’t have the knowledge or experience that are most confident and in turn get the applause.

Similarly, put yourself in order, dress to accentuate your shape, dress to look your age or younger than your age, don’t live an obsolete lifestyle, be in trend and be aware of the new trends happening around you.

3. Education Is One Of The Most Valuable Asset a Woman Can Give Herself.

You need to be informed, the ladies of the 21st century are not the ones who wait by for man-to-make decisions.

Your intellectual capacity is your asset as a Woman, you have to be educated and informed. Even if your physical attributes get you the necessary attention, your intellectual capacity will sustain it. How knowledgeable you are about certain events, topics, or issues will influence your perception of things which will reflect your attitude and energy. So your brain is your assets feed it well.

4. Your Relationships With Others

As a lady, your relationship with others is an asset you shouldn’t toil with. Even if you are an introvert you need to have a circle of close friends that would always be there for you when you need them.

Keep Relationships with both male and female friends. Even if it seems like y’all don’t have anything of value to share, you have to keep building this relationship at every stage of your life, it is very necessary, you see as men always have friends or pals that they sometimes don’t even know the real names they just keep them because they know one day they will have could have what they need at it wouldn’t be a problem asking because they already have an existing relationship.

Is keeping relationships easier for women than it is for men? I guess it is easier for men but I will keep that debate for another article. At the same time, women have to work on building valuable relationships, it is easier to get things done, get projects executed, get business and events going as quickly as possible if you have the right relationship and circle of networks.

5. Your Online Presence is the Newest Asset for Women.

Girls, please have an online presence, be visible, you could have all the above-listed assets as a woman, girl, or lady, and still be hidden. Even if it is on your small WhatsApp or Facebook or LinkedIn or any social space you reckon with.

Let me use Liqourose from BBN season 6 as an example, if she probably didn’t have an online presence showcasing her dance skills before the show she probably would not have been noticed or gained as many fans as much as she has on the show.

You have that skill, passion, etc. Put yourself out there get noticed and grow a following that’s an asset that could even get you far more relationships and attention than boobs and ass would.