How to ask a friend to hookup Reddit

I get that this might be a question better suited for a dating sub, but I've found that they can be a bit toxic and I guess I'm only looking for a women's perspective.

I've never had a sexual relationship with someone I wasn't in a relationship with or dating, so I guess what's the best way to ask someone? It's someone I was getting to know at the beginning of the year. We weren't looking for the same thing so we stopped seeing each other. Now I'm not in a place for a relationship but I still want to have sex. I still have his number. Do I just ask how he's doing and go from there? How direct should I be?

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I suggest getting right to the point, since you guys have been flirting and you know that he finds you attractive, as a man I can confidently say that he will say yes.

If you only want a one time thing it’s better to be straightforward and let him know exactly what you want so he doesn’t get mislead.

On the (extremely) off chance he says no, then you’re just saving yourself time.

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-Establish chemistry BEFORE propositioning.

-Avoid horrible lines like "Wanna fuck?"

-Don't be afraid to create reasonable expectations.

-If she turns you down, don't make it a big deal. Also, turning you down for tonight doesn't mean she's turning you down forever (she might not be comfortable with going home with someone she's just met, or she may physically not be in the mood for sex).

-If you're not sure about her intentions, ASK! If she just turned you down for tonight, ask her if she would like to go on a NSA date another time?

Examples: Don't walk up to a hot chick, leer at her boobs and ask her if she wants to go back to your place.

Do:Have a conversation. If we're hitting it off, I'll respond really well to honesty. Lines like "You're awesome. Would it make you uncomfortable if I kissed you?" or "Hey, we both seem to be on the same page with dating and relationships. I'd really like it if you came home with me tonight, but if you don't want to, that's OK too" have both worked recently.

Seriously, guys. Flirt and communicate. That's all!

So I’ve come to a conclusion that I’m too busy to commit due to the workload in university but I still want to have fun. So I reckon hookups or fwb relationships suit me more.

I live in a uni dorm but idk how to initiate a hookup. There’s a friend of mine where I want to try getting into a fwb relationship with, but I don’t know where to start. I don’t want alcohol to be involved. Do I straight on ask her “Hey, I’m bored, wanna come over for some fun? ;)” or “Hey, wanna have some fun sometime? No strings attached”. I know she’s into hookup culture cus she told me she slept with one of his guy friends.

Lastly, other than a blowjob in the past, I’ve never had other sexual experiences. I’m also very skinny and short. Do these matter?