How to pull hair during sex

How to pull hair during sex

When you are looking for things to add to your bedroom experience to spice it up and make it more intense, hair pulling is definitely one of the things that first comes to mind. It isn’t an act that is crazy enough to scare you or your partner away, but when it is done right, it can be absolutely amazing! To make sure that you go forward with the correct approach, here is a brief guide to hair pulling during sex.

Table of contents:

  1. The Back
  2. Four Fingers
  3. Grab
  4. Pulling Downwards
  5. Repeat
  6. ROUGH IT up a BIT
  7. Practise


1 The Back

The best place to pull to cause a pleasurable sensation is around the back of the scalp, basically the opposite side compared to the face!


2 Four Fingers

Basically start by running your four fingers down the back of your partner’s neck, just below the hairline, then point upwards and work your way up in to their hair from that direction.

3 Grab

Once you reach a spot where you can get good purchase, pull the hair not by yanking, but instead by scrunching your fist up into a slow ball, remembering to start off being gentle and then increasing your grip with consent and encouragement.


4 Pulling Downwards

Don’t just let go of the hair in that scrunched position, instead slowly pull downwards, allowing the hair to slip out of your fingers bit by bit which provides some more sensation.


5 Repeat

Don’t just try it the once and then move on to something else. The more you pull hair in all of the different sensitive areas, the better it will feel after a while and the more it will contribute to your arousal and your growing orgasm.


6 ROUGH IT up a BIT

It may seem a bit porn-movie-ish, but there is pleasure gained when a girl wears a ponytail and her man is able to pull on it. The act of pulling from behind arches your back, thrusting your breasts upwards, creating a great entry position for your man from behind. It's a gentle way to introduce some light S&M.


7 Practise

The best way to perfect your skills is just to practise with a willing partner!

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What is hair pulling during sex called?

Trichophilia, also known as a hair fetish, is when someone feels sexually aroused by or attracted to human hair. This can be any type of human hair, such as chest hair, armpit hair, or pubic hair. However, the most common focus for this attraction seems to be human head hair.

How do you tie your hair during sex?

Put Your Locks In Braids For a more feminine touch (if that's what you're into), try putting your long locks into a loose braid — it can be tugged on during rough sex and after you're finished, simply take the braid out for some hopefully-not-tangled beachy waves.

Why do I like my hair being pulled?

Experts think the urge to pull hair happens because the brain's chemical signals (called neurotransmitters) don't work properly. This creates the irresistible urges that lead people to pull their hair. Pulling the hair gives the person a feeling of relief or satisfaction.

How do you pull your hair without it hurting?

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Take ibuprofen. "Taking an ibuprofen about 45 minutes before tweezing can help decrease the discomfort," says Sania Vucetaj, founder of Sania's Brow Bar..
Try a numbing cream. ... .
Keep your skin taut. ... .
Pull from the root of the hair. ... .
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